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1 comment February 23, 2007 lafemmeafrique12

Eric Wainaina, Twende Twende album

An open letter to Eric Wainaina,

Thank you for releasing the much awaited album ‘Twende Twende’ in late 2006. I had the good fortune of finding this gem when I was home over Winter Break, and it is fitting to give God tribute for the talent which he has bestowed on you.

So far I have received so many compliments on the music from Pakistani, Indian, Zimbabwean, Kenyan and other friends. The message they are sending is, send us this album. So if you find this message somewhere on the internet, please, send albums this way to market to the US. There is a high demand.

I appreciate the global applicability of your album. I especially enjoy ‘Ni Ki Kiega’ because moms are awesome!!!

God bless you.

One of the Ma Fans

Add comment February 10, 2007 lafemmeafrique12

Back from Mama Kenya

When you are in Kenya, time automatically slows down and you stop wondering what time it is and how late you are for this or that or the other. You tell time by asking your neighbour and bond over Bamba 50 airtime and overpriced food at international events.

You listen to music like “Nasikia Utamu” and you are aware of how being home is Nyummylicious ! It is mutura at KKs by the roadside and looking seriously for Imodium after the fact. It is downing large amounts of sweet fermented porridge, prepared by a loving grandmother. You are constantly aware of just how flavorful the water is, fluoride enriched and all, if you are upcountry.

If there are friends that you find, you are surprised how well they know you, so well that they read the changes the years have brought to your youthful facade. You are met by visits to see your nieces and nephews, heralding your entry into the world of being an auntie, a “shangazi” and your love for things baby – or ‘Waa Waa’ is called into focus.

You are acutely aware who left the city, because you rarely see them over the time that you are there. You are thankful that it is the holiday season, and that people put aside their differences to celebrate the season of good cheer.

If you are a real Kenyan, you spend beyond what you had planned in December and squeeze into January clothes rueing your indulgences. If just a Kenya traveller you are sure your groaning ATm card will show you pocket dust when you return. It is so sweet to be in the spirit of giving. You wonder when you will stop being in the EABL induced spirit of the season.

When you realise that Nameless’ lyrics are the cutest thing ever, you see a new something, and you are truly becoming corny. You know when you see the one whose sweet nothings once made your heart ‘paragasha!’ in high school you will wish you were 16 again but for a minute. The reality of how things have changed makes you happy. Ah, you know you are a grown-up, and you laugh over coffee, real Arabica from the Highlands with your old high school mates. You are no longer ill at ease at your old school, and even welcome to enter the staffroom and meet all your teachers, and yes, some ask you to call them by their first names…well, almost.

I am back for a season, however long that may be. Nothing will remove the flame of my home from where it is. I love Kenya, God bless us everyone.

1 comment January 25, 2007 lafemmeafrique12

Soulfege, DNA …Sweetmother!


Sweetmother ,
I never forget you
the way you suffer, suffer,
she kept me humble in the concrete jungle…
She taught me to aim high…
Never enuf time to thank her for what she did…
Sweetmother by Soulfege( Abridged lyrics)

The reggae/funk/hiphop group Soulfege has arrived. Where the fusion of different genres and influences heralds the entry of an interesting band, Soulfege upps this and has indeed checked in. I am swaying to ‘Sweet mama’, an ode to our mothers, ‘Sweetheart’, a ballad I am now convinced was crooned for beauties everywhere, and ‘Baby’.

When I mention highlife, Africa, fusion, soul and heart, if you are still in the dark, know that I am on about Soulfege. Kudos to this group, which is one of the best groups to have emerged in the recent years. Some of you know that I am on a roll with proteges to emerge from Kuumba ( Harvard Choir ) such as Shu and now Daniel N. Ashong, of Soulfege. It does not hurt that the group is a diaspora group with influences from all over including the Fugees, highlife and the best of that benga-esque beat that I cannot seem to get enough of.

I think listening to this group tonight was a real treat and am very sad that we missed them narrowly when they came to perform in Philly over the summer. Reading DNA’s story about discovering his roots after travelling the world is one that many friends and I can identify with, what with some having come from upbringing in at least five world capitals and a fair number of the rest transplanted to the US to study and carve careers. I admire his talent, his and Soulfege’s passion for Africa and the development of youth in Africa.

Not one to leave an idea in song alone, the group has embraced development in Africa within the Sweetmother.org platform to host a Youth Conference this past April 2006 and are now the energy behind the Sweetmother Tour, which will use the arts as a powerful tool to develop the arts in Africa. The group hopes to show undiscovered bands in an alternative, positive view of Africa and win the hearts of music fans globally too. Who knows, I could catch up with them in Nairobi.

Soulfege, the diaspora applauds you!

Add comment December 17, 2006 lafemmeafrique12

Sojourner

In life, so many moments pass by when you feel the need to share those Oprah “Aha” moments and this time is no exception. Like many Kenyans abroad, I am returning after a long time away. I remember seeing Ngugi wa Thiong’o kiss the ground when he returned after many years away. On numerous occassions I have been the one to welcome the ‘fam’ from abroad, and those early morning flight arrivals are nothing short of momentous. I relished the stories about these faraway lands and often wondered what it would feel like to return after living in a completely different culture.

So far, I await to see the ads on TV now. I honestly hope to say, ” There are some things that just do not change!”. I remember eating nyamchom at some place not far from Eureka near Ngong town, and watching the processions through town on a Sunday near Holy Family Basilica. What a treat. I think to myself, does Nyal’s ( the men’s store) still exist? And THEN, to tell you the truth, the Java Coffee House lost its cache for me. I want the real coffee from a kawaida coffee house, not to pay the same for a cuppa as I would here. Don’t worry, I will not lead a revolution against the chain of coffeehouses. But on the real yo. Stop paying for overpriced coffee.

I will relish being out of touch with the Web for a while and to rest my tired eyes, which may squint at the screen one too many times, after many nights spent writing papers and skimming passages from cover to cover. I want to see the cybercafes and find out where it is at in town. Walalala! I want to get a spa-style treatment when I get home. The full do, hair, maniped, the works. If you are anywhere in the western hemisphere and have not seen a braiding salon that does not cost you any less than $200 damage, wave a hand in the air.

Family comes first people. After seeing one too many a college student cuss out their folks. I was corrected the other day for saying that kids here are out of control, when we shared stories of what would happen if we talked to out parents the same way that some of the kids here do, knowing we may not see the light of another day if that happened. I was raised by the village( community) and want to return.

Thanks be to God for this Christmas season. Not just because of family, but for the miracle of the birth of Jesus and the gift of life!

Add comment December 16, 2006 lafemmeafrique12

God bless Kenya-Happy Independence Day

Dear reader, I write to you as a child who did get Nyayo free primary school milk, enjoyed Club Kiboko and walked through City Park and played with the monkeys there. I salute you as a daughter of Wangari Maathai, Wambui Otieno and Catherine Kasavuli. I stand against the wall under the portraits of Pio Gama Pinto, Tom Mboya, Mekatilili wa Menza and Dedan Kimathi.

I stand as a grandchild of the Kennedy Airlift generation, whose foray into the Americas for education started us upward after 1963 and is in part to blame for those who pulled us down in the centuries that follow. I wander among today’s Kenya, where women and children are not safe from their communities and environments and where even foreigners are not enccouraged to wander by their governments.

And still I am very proud of being Kenyan, born and proudly raised in the generation of “Someni Vijana”( Swahili for ‘Read You Young One’-taken from a popular song we were taught as primary students ) I salute you sons of Kenya, where you lie fallen, after the fight that you ardently strove to win. As a saying goes “Arookoma Kuuraga”( May they lie in well watered plains)

So as you all debate the Kenyan questions of tomorrow, spare a thought to be happy and to share love, today.

Add comment December 11, 2006 lafemmeafrique12

Do they know it’s Christmastime

How did I get involved with these concerns? How will the songs on the radio translate to real action…I join with BandAid and ask, “Do they know its Christmastime at all?”

As an introduction, you and I should explore the history of the causes that share the twin goal to fund HIV/AIDS affected communities in Africa. ONE aims at addressing the causes of AIDS, Poverty and Aid. See the issues here.I was intrduced to the one campaign by this kidShuqran for that intro.

Here is what the ONE Campaign does
Why ONE percent?

Americans have always been a generous people – just look at the outpouring of support for the victims of the tsunami. Yet, most Americans would be surprised to learn that less than ONE percent of the federal budget is currently marked for fighting AIDS and poverty around the world. Surveys show people think it is over 15%.

ONE percent of the U.S. budget is approximately $25 billion, and redirecting that much more money will take time. Directed to honest governments, private charities and faith-based organizations, this support would provide the tools and resources they need to really make a difference.
What is 1% of your salary?

By directing an additional ONE percent of the U.S. budget toward providing the most basic needs – and fighting the corruption that wastes precious resources –we can help transform the futures and hopes of an entire generation in the poorest countries. If the U.S. were to devote an additional ONE percent – one cent more for every dollar spent by the federal government–to helping the world’s poorest people help themselves, America would demonstrate a commitment to the Millennium Goals, an internationally agreed upon effort to halve global poverty by 2015.Imagine if you donated that 1% to someone who may never see it?

One percent is not merely a number on a balance sheet. One percent is the girl who gets to go to school, thanks to you. One percent is the AIDS patient who gets her medicine. One percent is the African entrepreneur who can start a small family business. One percent is not redecorating presidential palaces or money flowing down a hole.No massive investments in elephant schemes here! Serikali, are you listening? This one percent is digging waterholes to provide clean water. One percent is a new partnership with Africa and the world’s poorest countries, where increased assistance flows toward improved governance and initiatives with proven track records.

With an additional ONE percent of our budget we can help prevent 10 million children from becoming AIDS orphans; We can help get 104 million children into grade school; We can help provide water to almost 900 million people around the globe; We can save almost 6.5 million children under 5 from dying of diseases that could be prevented with low-cost measures like vaccination or a well for clean water.

America gives less than one percent now. Were asking for an extra one percent to change the world, to transform millions of lives–but not just that – to also transform the way the world sees us. One percent is national security, enlightened economic self interest, and a better safer world for us all.

As for the (RED) Campaign, shopping is a way that we can do something for this project. I suppose the best things in life are RED!
Let us think about the potential. Today is Black Friday and everybody I know from here to Texas was out buying something. Imagine if these items were RED products… and we were still donating these monies while we indulge our materialism…wouldn’t it make some kind of a change. We are always making the appropriate noises about donating money to Africa, e.g poor NGO infrastructure and the list goes on.

Check out these items

I see (RED)!!!!

1 comment November 25, 2006 lafemmeafrique12

L’Africaine on T-Day Break Speaks Out


Good blogging takes time and dedication and effort. As I have attempted to do over the last fifty posts, I continue to strive to be what every blogger dreams of, a place one can return to after a while and know that there will be good content for sure.

This goal is not at all aided by the fact that inorder to have a successful blogging career, you must sacrifice your sleep time since the other day to day things( read papers, assignments and drills) must be completed via all means that you may find problable> I am not the first person to go to Uni…granted i feel like a diva at times for accomplishing things that professional students would call child’s play, like reading adequately and widely for a test weeks in advance and completing assignments to the T when you are only asked for an R or an S.

I have been thinking a lot about studying here, and how the woman above me in the picture would respond to my constant attention to the sheer amount of work that we have here, the angst over choice of major, vs choice of career vs how much salary etc. She looks radiant, definitely a product of ;ovely ochre on her hair and skin, her beauty complementing her attire and obscuring the worries that she may have as a wife and a mother. Point is, being here, at school, is a gift. It is a valuable opportunity but it is not by any means at all the reason to want to end life outside the calculations and thesis proposals that you end up writing on and every day basis.

I want every person thinking of coming to live alone as a student for all the years that they will be here in the United States to realise that there are not that many things that can prepare you if you do not have a strong self drive and a hard working persona. I have met my fair share of people who came here as students a long time ago and either finished and went on to greater careers in business, policy making and international diplomacy as well as those who work the lowest paying jobs and play a cat-and-mouse game with the authorities as a result of one too many choices made inappropriately.

When I think of the things that I will be able to do after all this is done, I smile knowing that for the first time in life I will have the tools to help other people make something out of their lives. Obviously, there are needs for stability post education. I want to meet entrepreneurs and join with them to train young people to start and run their own enterprises. I want to donate money to my alma maters both here and back home. I surely want to sustain a small green space somewhere, and if that means the Highlands, so be it.

Given a T-Day like this I choose to speak to some of the many people who have made the journey here very very worthwhile and whose names and memories remain in my heart and mind as I go about my day to day activities knowing that somewhere, you will be very proud of me. Special thanks to Mwarimu, who taught me the catechism that sounded so foreign to my untrained tongue and challenged me to pursue language learning, thanks to my late Gramps, who I hear was a whiz at languages. I would especially like to remember Mrs Louis, who played a part in building Kenya, since her ‘babies’ are doing extremely well from here to Timbuktu. Special cheers to my music teacher Mr njoroge, for showing these nimble fingers the way to sight read and paly the rudiments of music. Overall, I am very very grateful to Mr TK Gaitho, whose early computer classes not only made Tomb Raider my #1 game(that i will learn how to play someday) but whet my appetite for things computer!

Thanks to Dingo, the Rev. Z, DJ Sofa and Momma, whose rendition of Happy Birthday at midnight on my birthday while in a large and crowded hall made the milestone worth every moment.

Last but not least I would like to remember my family, aka la familia esp Chica, Madre,the Pops and the Clan, whose constant love and support are priceless! Cheerio

Add comment November 22, 2006 lafemmeafrique12

Sunday… Dedicated to God


Every Sunday that passes brings me closer to the end of the semester and I cannot help but thank the Lord who has brought me thus far. I learned about Apologetics this weekend, which is a way of defending the truth claims of Christianity. While I was getting into the thick of the material I realised that there was a lot behind the philosophical jargon. Now, sometimes thinking philosophically makes my head hurt! However, this time there was a difference as we studied the bases of humanism, mysticism, science, modernism and post modernism and Islam as a way to understand the belief systems of different parts of the world.
Another essential part of the talk was a focus on doing good and not just telling Gospel to other people. One attendant gave an example of how, in her community, there are a lot of people who live under the poverty line smack in the middle of a religious community of all faiths. When an Christian evangelical team went to some of the poorest of these, and asked why they did not attend church, these people said that they had never received any assistance from the church whereas the other faith based communities had offered yearlong food aid and educational assistance. This does not happen in all communities however, it was evident that others in the class had noticed that a lot of the people who claim to be followers of Jesus hardly ever wholly immerse themselves in good works, or giving to the point where it hurts. I agreed with these thoughts because they challenged my own giving.
Coming from a community and family where your bank check book has never been a hindrance to giving, this call to give rang true for me. It needs some creative juggling to balance the monies for giving, but it can be done.
Dear reader, these are but a few thoughts that are swirling around. Sometimes there is a topical basis, keep checking back…
Have a great week.

Add comment November 19, 2006 lafemmeafrique12

My Life is Not My Own

Today it is real. That my life is not my own. Half the time I am consumed by work, by putting many assignments and things that school hands me ahead of my personal needs for sleep and solitude, I have handed my mind and body over to academia.

And to be true, for a couple of weeks, I ate the same meal straight for lunch and a different meal straight for supper. I did not notice until this last weekend, where the cooking of a meal for friends broke the feeding cycle and began to feel like eating different foods. I digress. I carried myself from class to class and from hall to supermarket carrying the weight of books, tests, due dates, graphs, equations and a calculator.

The way I have been going nonstop, no wonder I am feeling run down. There must be a better way to stave of body shutdown. Thank God for kickboxerobics…with the vibrant teacher who, twice a week makes this mainly immobile form come to life.

Once though today, I wanted to cry. I really thought that the way I was feeling today would never end. Until I ran into my friend N, and we were talking about school and tests and being sleepy and tired and (yawn!) oh so sleepy. She asked me how the birthday was and I went back a couple of weekends ago when I was feted by friends near and far and happy birthdayed into a new decade…Yes! the reason why my life is no longer my own is because for the period that has drawn to a close, it belongs to someone else.

That someone is a Someone whose appraisal of my grades depends on the effort that I put into them, the way I conduct my days and the lovely way that I view life. The someone does not care how inane the task is, that someone is willing to forgive my myopic focus and cut through to my heart. That someone is my mother, my best friends, my awesome supervisor, whose advice and support are immense, is my online pals who are there for me even though they are sometimes so far. That someone is my phone buddy who calls me to pray for stuff and to share blessings.

Who owns my life. As the roster of attendance will be called in that place called Home, I plan to be there in full force to thank Him for my gran, #1 man, sis, teacher from 2H, pal from India, sister headed to Senegal and DJ Sofa, my favorite DJ friend.

So really. Today I refuse to be owned by changing weather, by charismatic agnosticism, false hope in academia, emotional blackmail by the TV about what to eat and how to look, my EN, my shoe size or any other factors. I choose life, because I do not have very long to hold on to life, which is not my own !

IArie sang “I am not my hair”. I sing that ‘I am not my 4 years here’ nor am I ‘unbelievably scared ‘ nor am I ‘tired of working’ ‘starved for love’(I have the extended family, mentors, teachers and friends to prove it) ‘terrified to leap out of the box and soar’. Why, cause, my life is no longer my own.

I know what it is to be in need and I know what it is to have plenty.I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength “ Philippians 4:12-13 NIV Copyright 1973,1978, 1984 by International Bible Society.

Add comment November 15, 2006 lafemmeafrique12

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